Fashion Confidence

Improve Your Confidence With Women

If you’ve been out of the dating scene for a while, then you may not have much confidence with women. Hopefully, these confidence with women tips will help you to get it back!

Women Are People Too

The first thing you need to remember is that women are just people – they aren’t mythical, magical creatures and they have no power over you. There’s a line between ‘game’ and ‘white knight’ and that’s what you want to find. Women like being around people that don’t put them on a pedestal, but that do treat them with respect.

 

Fake it Til You Make It

If you’re shy, women will notice that and will wonder why. So, try to be outgoing – look people in the eye, say hello. Make the approach. Smile. Acting confident will make you feel confident.

Be Busy

It’s easier to make the approach and ask a woman out if you’re not hanging on her to say yes and make your social life for the foreseeable future. So, join a club. Sign up for a fun run. Start volunteering with a charity. Find things to do so that you aren’t devastated if you are turned down.

When a woman says “I can’t meet you tonight, how about Saturday?”, if you can honestly and quickly turn her down with “I can’t do Saturday because I’m volunteering as a steward for a race at the local running club”, that makes you sound like someone who is kind hearted, motivated, and interesting. If you’re always available, then that makes you seem desperate and boring.

Get Lots of Practice

Practice pays off in any pursuit – including the pursuit of women. So, get out there and talk to as many as you can – even ones that aren’t your type. This will help you to get over the shock of talking to the opposite sex, and it will give you feedback about what people like. It will also help you to appear more desirable – if a woman knows that you know a lot of women, then they’re going to be more likely to be interested in you – because several other women have already shown that you’re “OK”. This is a subconscious thing that most women don’t realise they’re doing, but it’s a powerful thing too, and once you notice it, you will find that it is easy to exploit it.

Pay Attention to your Appearance

You don’t need to go crazy, but also don’t roll out of bed and go to your date.  Dress in a smart way, so that she know that you have enough self-esteem to care about your appearance.  You can get fashion tips online by looking for things like best fashion jeans for men.

Remember, you should always care, but never too much!